Ms. Nikki Says...ALL MY SINGLE LADIES!!!

I was talking to a friend of mine the other day and she was telling me about a break-up she is currently going through. Without putting all her business on front street she was basically just saying over and over how she couldnt believe he left her after she gave him her everything and how she didnt understand why he couldnt just get his priorities together while being in a relationship instead of wanting to be single...

Ms Nikki Says...

I think one of the mistakes people make in relationships is giving someone your everything. Its ok to give alot, but your everything is a little too much. Its like setting yourself up for failure because if the relationship ends then you're left with nothing and the hardest place to start over from is zero. Only god deserves your everything. Even if you think it could last forever there is a HUGE possibility that it wont. Its really not worth the risk. Im not saying that you cant love wholeheartedly, just remember to save a little of that love for yourself.

I also think that sometimes break-ups are needed in a relationship. Sometimes you just need to take a step back and re-evaluate some things to make sure you are making the right decisions and you're on the right path. Oftentimes you need to be single to do so because your better half can sometimes hinder your growth unintentionally. With all that being said, if you're ever in this particualr situation dont think your world is ending. Take this time and work on yourself...Besides, thats what your single time is for!

That's all for now folks! Im going to be giving advice every monday on a broad range of topics so make sure you tune in next week for Ms. Nikki Says.... Smooches!

~Ms. Nikki~