Ms. Nikki Says...ALL MY SINGLE LADIES!!!

I was talking to a friend of mine the other day and she was telling me about a break-up she is currently going through. Without putting all her business on front street she was basically just saying over and over how she couldnt believe he left her after she gave him her everything and how she didnt understand why he couldnt just get his priorities together while being in a relationship instead of wanting to be single...

Ms Nikki Says...

I think one of the mistakes people make in relationships is giving someone your everything. Its ok to give alot, but your everything is a little too much. Its like setting yourself up for failure because if the relationship ends then you're left with nothing and the hardest place to start over from is zero. Only god deserves your everything. Even if you think it could last forever there is a HUGE possibility that it wont. Its really not worth the risk. Im not saying that you cant love wholeheartedly, just remember to save a little of that love for yourself.

I also think that sometimes break-ups are needed in a relationship. Sometimes you just need to take a step back and re-evaluate some things to make sure you are making the right decisions and you're on the right path. Oftentimes you need to be single to do so because your better half can sometimes hinder your growth unintentionally. With all that being said, if you're ever in this particualr situation dont think your world is ending. Take this time and work on yourself...Besides, thats what your single time is for!

That's all for now folks! Im going to be giving advice every monday on a broad range of topics so make sure you tune in next week for Ms. Nikki Says.... Smooches!

~Ms. Nikki~

Murphy Sick Before She Passed

Brittany Murphy was very ill in the hours before she went into cardiac arrest and died, sources tell TMZ.

Murphy was taking prescription meds for flu-like symptoms she had been experiencing for several days. She also began vomiting early Sunday morning and told family members she was feeling very ill.

Sources say various prescriptions were found in the home -- written for Brittany Murphy, husband Simon Monjack, and Brittany's mom. One source says, "There were a lot ... a lot of prescriptions in the house."

Law enforcement sources tell TMZ Murphy collapsed in the bathroom and somehow ended up in the shower ... there was, we're told, a significant amount of vomit in the immediate area.

Authorities did not find illegal drugs in the house, but Murphy was definitely taking various prescription meds.

Sources say her condition and the meds could have triggered a heart attack, but it's too early to know. An autopsy will be performed Monday or Tuesday. TMZ reported earlier Monjack did not want an autopsy but ultimately it's the Coroner's call.

Brittany Murphy's mother told paramedics her daughter suffered from diabetes. TMZ reps were told it was type 2 diabetes and people involved in the case doubt her condition caused her death.

Tiger Woods Divorce Is ON!

Tiger Woods and his wife are headed to divorce court.

A "divorce is 100 percent on," a source close to Woods' wife, Elin Nordegren, tells ABC News.

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The 29-year-old Nordegren -- who is rumored to be consulting L.A. based divorce lawyer Sorrell Trope -- "is not rushing to divorce, however," the source says. "She's going to take her sweet time. She wants all the dirty laundry to be out on the table before she signs anything."

Carrie Underwood Engaged!

For those of you who love Carrie, her rep comfirmed that she got engaged to Ottawa Senator hockey player Mike Fisher! Congrats to the couple..

According to the Ottawa Sun, he also confirmed the news at a press conference Monday. He said he popped the question Sunday, but declined to offer any other details.

"It's true," he said. "We're both obviously excited and very happy."

His teammate Chris Neil said Fisher, 29, called him shortly after he proposed. "I think it's great," Neil told reporters. "It's a long time coming. There's going to be a lot of broken hearts in Ottawa with all those girls who are in love with Mikey."

Avatar Makes 232 Million Worldwide!

James Cameron launched his science-fiction epic "Avatar" into a safe orbit as the costly film soared to No. 1 with $73 million domestically and $159.2 million overseas, for a $232.2 million worldwide total.

With that big a start, distributor 20th Century Fox was quick to proclaim it made a good investment with the estimated $400 million spent to make and market the film, which is Cameron's first narrative feature since 1997's "Titanic," the king of modern blockbusters.

"Absolutely. No question," said Chris Aronson, head of distribution for the studio, which reported stellar reaction in exit polls from audiences after seeing "Avatar." "The word of mouth is something that I don't know I've ever seen in this business before."

Brittany Murphy Updated

Brittany Murphy's death Sunday may have been shocking, but according to a coroner's official, "it appears to be natural."

At least for now.

"We are involved in an investigation of Brittany Murphy's death," Ed Winter, chief investigator for the Los Angeles County Coroner's Office, told E! News. "She evidently collapsed in the bathroom. She was transported to Cedars-Sinai hospital, where she passed away. We will probably be doing an autopsy tomorrow or Tuesday, of course the final results will be pending toxicology and further tests."

Winter made his remarks outside the Clueless star's home, where he was accompanied by seven Los Angeles Police Department officers.

There is no evidence of foul play, Winter added. "We come out, we look at everything, any prescriptions meds we do take. We will have to analyze everything and go from there.

"It appears to be natural at this time. She has a medical history and there might be some other issues, but I can't elaborate."